As I talk about in my blog, men and women each have a different love language. That is, in the way they express and receive love.
To keep the relationship balanced and to make sure we are taking care to fill our lover's love tank, remember to take turns on date night. Selflessness builds eternal marriages.
For most men, the deepest way we communicate and receive love is through sex. For most women, the deepest way they communicate love is through service, nurturing, and self sacrifice.They feel loved when these are acknowledged and appreciated.
Tonight is his night to choose. Here is a great idea, one that is relatively inexpensive, can be done at home, and tends to the love languages of both sexes.
But, you husbands may have a better idea and that's okay too!
Have you ever played Romantic Rendezvous? It sells at Amazon between $20 and
$40 (I get nothing - wish I did) but, you may be able to find it cheaper
It's worth the price and it will give you years of
enjoyment. But for heaven's sake, don't leave it laying out where the
kids can get hold of it and play it. It's a game meant only for a
married couple. It's a sacred activity for a married couple, but profane
to allow those not married to play it. I didn't find it crude, vulgar or obscene, or offensive to the Spirit.
It's a great
relationship game that gets you both talking, gives you permission to
express yourselves intimately with each other, and gives you an
opportunity to discover some things about your comfort zones.
Bet you both don't make it to the finish line. Happy Dating!